I'm doing an overhaul of my website at the moment, exploring how to organise and put words to knowing and experience. Booking a session is probably the quickest way to get an answer to your question, if you have one - June 30, 2026

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If there were a purpose of life, it would not be to…

Define your story, make your mark, make memories, make amends, find meaning, fulfil your purpose, love, help people, find happiness, or even grow… - these are all thoughts.

It would be to experience connection and separation so completely, to know both so absolutely, that no sense of separation remains.

This can only be done by living through and with them. By connecting with separation - rather than judging it, avoiding it, or pretending it doesn't exist. And recognising connection when you experience it.

This may appear confusing, annoying, and frustrating to the mind… Until it doesn't. Until it's accepted, rolled with, and enjoyed.

The process of coming to know becomes much easier, smoother, and more enjoyable with a friend or two to help you distinguish between connection and separation - to provide clarity where there is confusion, lightness where there is weight, love where there is fear.

I am one of those friends. And I don’t want anything from you - not money, not appreciation, not referrals. Which, in my experience (and probably yours), is a very rare thing.

What is also rare is the fact you're even here - prepared to look, to question, to interrogate, to dare not to be right, to dare not to know, and in so, come to know.

Assuming you’re here for that, and not to sell me SEO services, which I get a lot of emails about nowadays.

Based on all of this, this site explores the experience of connection and separation, with plenty of examples of both to help you 'sense into' the difference.

Connection cannot be lost, the mind simply obscures it - so many of the examples identify specific narratives, concepts, ideas, assumptions, and judgements, that 'get in the way' of experiencing it.

Online meetings offer the opportunity to connect - to simply enjoy each other's company, sitting silently or talking, or (which more commonly happens) to explore a situation you'd like some clarity on.

What I've discovered, through my own lived experience, is that there is no right or wrong way, no quick or slow route, no mistakes, and nothing to fail or succeed at - it's all experience, exploration, experimentation, life - happening, and through it, an ever deeper sense of knowing.