If there were a purpose to life, it would not be to...

Define your story, make your mark, make memories, make amends, find meaning, help people, find happiness, or even grow.

It would be to experience connection and separation so completely, to know both so absolutely, that all sense of separation falls away.

This can only be done by living through and with both - by experiencing joy as well as sorrow, peace as well as unpeace, truth as well as falsity.

This may appear frustrating to the mind that wants to get to an imagined state as soon as possible. Until the mind settles, and life, as it is now, is not resisted, but connected with and enjoyed.

The process of connecting evermore frequently and deeply becomes much easier, smoother, and more enjoyable with a friend or two to help you distinguish between connection and separation - to provide clarity when there is confusion, lightness when there is weight, love when there is fear.

I am one of those friends, and I don’t want anything from you - which, in my experience (and probably yours), is a rare thing.

What is also rare is the fact you're even here - prepared to look, to question, to sense into, to not be right, to not know, and in so come to know... Assuming you’re here for that, and not to sell me SEO services, which I get a lot of emails about nowadays.

What I've discovered, through experiencing, is that there is no right or wrong way, no quick or slow route, no mistakes, and nothing to fail or succeed at - for there is no goal or destination.

It's all experience, exploration, experimentation, life simply happening, and through it, an ever deeper and vaster sense of peace, love, joy, connection and knowing.