Ultimately, there is nothing to say, and speaking but disrupts the joyful silence.


However, until this is felt/known within you, talking through the mind's goings on can be cathartic, and a pathway to peace and joy.


Through speaking, we formalise our interpretation of experience, and through speaking with someone who sees through the noise to the simplicity of what is - we can find ever less untruthful and inaccurate concepts to describe experience - speaking ever less vaguely, experiencing ever less falsehood.


The guidance I offer is focused upon exploring with a person their interpretation of their experience. I notice that the people with whom I work 'long term' are open of heart, and motivated to speak as a means of seeking Truth, rather than so as to justify and solidify their narrative/experience of a separate self.


Gaslighting; the misrepresentation of reality, especially within the context of spirituality, is often a major area of exploration. It is normal for those open/sensitive to sense that what they hear, read or are told, about themselves or how things are, is not quite true, but they doubt what they sense, and often misidentify the sensing of untruth (which is felt/known directly in the body) as a judgement/reaction.


During sessions, we explore, demystify, clarify, uncover the simple Truth of what is, shining bright and clear when the mind is quiet, which, for those keen on peace and joy, is an enlivening and unburdening experience.


There is no charge for sessions. I live in the UK.


tash@tashshadman.com


Sessions with me and Alex

My boyfriend, Alex, and I often do sessions together.

Alex had a spiritual awakening in 2021. He awoke one morning in a state of bliss which continued for many months. While the bliss-state is now experienced intermittently, he remains free from suffering. He has been a consistent example of love/lightheartedness since we met in 2022, and has brought me back to myself many a time, when the mind has clouded my clear-seeing.

If you'd like to organise a session with both of us, please mention this when you contact me.

This is Alex’s website.


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